Origins
From the Latin singularis, meaning single, alone, or one of a kind. Historically used to describe something distinct or exceptional, often implying separation from the collective.
Meaning
Singularis is the belief that our pain, history, or addiction is so complex and specific that no one else could possibly understand it. What feels like insight is actually isolation, turning difference into distance and identity into armor. In Singularis, we interpret our experiences as evidence that we do not belong, using uniqueness as a reason to stay separate rather than vulnerable. The conviction feels protective and even accurate, but it quietly blocks connection by convincing us that being seen is impossible.
Usage
We lived inside Singularis for years, certain that our story placed us outside the circle.